11 20 857 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rev. Julie Flowers Stole Text REV. JULIE FLOWERS American Baptist Beverly, MA Signed at Rev. Flowers’ ordination at First Baptist Church of Beverly January 27, 2008 Denomination American Baptist/USA Contribution Date 2008 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1119 Title A name given to the resource Rev. Julie Flowers Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Beverly, Massachusetts (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource First Baptist Church of Beverly American Baptist/USA Baptist Flowers, Julie Massachusetts Ordination Women and Religion Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. James Cummings Stole Text REV. MR. JAMES DENNIS BONAVENTURE CUMMINGS, MA, M.Div. Roman Catholic Lynwood, CA A green priestly stole of Ordinary Time was donated on my behalf by the San Fernando Valley, CA, local chapter of Dignity USA. As an ordained Roman Catholic deacon, I contribute to the liturgical life of this community by assisting at Mass, cantoring, and presiding over prayer services, as well as volunteering for other events. It is through their sponsorship and encouragement that I am participating in the Shower of Stoles. As a personal symbol, the star pattern on my stole is similar to a design I used to decorate my confirmation stole (Bonaventure is my confirmation name). Frogs and toads are my personal totem. The stole reflects a chapter dedication to creation spirituality, the Green Man, and the annual celebration of Earth Day. I first thought about a vocation to the priesthood in second grade, in between paramedic and lawyer, or maybe between police officer and doctor. I gave it more serious consideration in 1987 after I finished my undergraduate degree at UC Santa Cruz, and came back home after college. As part of the process of applying to seminary, I had the unfortunate occasion of being interviewed by Joseph Nicolosi (the founder of NARTH), who at that time was still approved by the Archdiocese of Los Angeles to screen candidates. He came to the conclusion that I had chosen priesthood as a way to avoid confronting my homosexuality and that I should enter into therapy with him in order to be cured of my affliction. At that point in my life I considered myself "bisexual" and was fearful of the labels "homosexual" or "gay." I knew nothing of Nicolosi nor his bigoted views or skewed philosophy, but I did know I did not want to enter into therapy with this slimy man who used the occasion of an archdiocese psychological assessment to attempt to increase his own private practice. However, as a result of his remarks in the report, I began mandated psychotherapy with a variety of clinicians that continued on and off throughout my time with the archdiocese. For the most part I thoroughly enjoyed my seminary and field study experiences through St. John's Seminary in Camarillo, CA. My parish internship was at St. Finbar Catholic Community in Burbank, CA. It was not until my final evaluation after four and a half years of theological study that the seminary faculty raised any concerns about my worthiness as a candidate for priesthood. I was not ordained to the transitional deaconate with my classmates, but instead was postponed a few months and then afforded a special ceremony. On June 29, 1993, the solemn feast day of Saints Peter and Paul, I was ordained in my home parish of St. John Fisher in Rancho Palos Verdes, CA, the same church in which I have received all my other sacraments. As a founding member of the parish (in 1961), my mother was particularly thrilled that mine was the first ordination ceremony to be performed within the church building. I was assigned for six months to St. James in Redondo Beach, CA, and for another six months at St. Rose of Lima in Simi Valley, CA. I served as a deacon for four years as my priestly vocation continued to be questioned and ordination postponed. Throughout that time I led Bible Study and facilitated small group work. I was hired by the parish of St. Francis de Sales in Sherman Oaks, CA (an "unofficial" assignment), and coordinated adult education and the high school confirmation program for a couple of years. After an official placement in Holy Spirit parish in Mid-City Los Angeles, an ordination ceremony was finally scheduled for July 25, 1997, the feast day of St. James the Greater. It was cancelled at the last minute when the Cardinal Archbishop decided that he would not ordain an openly gay man to the priesthood. In my ten year pursuit, I went from being "bisexual," to fully claiming my homosexuality. My transitional deaconate has turned into a permanent one. To date in 2007 after another ten years, I have not sought priestly ordination through any other avenue. Denomination Roman Catholic Church Contribution Date 2008 Contribution Story This stole was donated by the San Fernando Valley Chapter of Dignity USA. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1117 Title A name given to the resource James Cummings Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant North Hills, California (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource San Fernando Valley Chapter of Dignity USA California Catholic Church Trials Cummings, James Dignity Ordination Roman Catholic Theology https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/d9f5b7c34f1202861399aa1f3119cfa9.jpg 6cb1c593517e7eb6c938e9236c118228 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Erin Stole Text ERIN Roman Catholic Toledo, OH EMPOWERED BY THE SPIRIT, LIMITED BY MY CHURCH My journey to ministry in the Roman Catholic Church has been one of grace. I was not active in my church growing up. In college, I became active in Campus Ministry and it changed my life. I learned that God is love; that we are created in the image and likeness of God and therefore we have inherent dignity and worth. Studying theology in graduate school and preparing to minister within my church was incredibly empowering. My course work opened my eyes to a whole new way of seeing the world. I was introduced to liberation theology and social justice. I knew that I was called to be a campus minister. Then, I came out, and discovered what the Roman Catholic Church teaches about ''homosexuals''. I realized that my relationship with my partner is considered "intrinsically evil and objectively disordered". I have yet to discover how that label helps me to know that I am created in the image of God and have inherent dignity and worth. Serving in official church ministry, I quickly discovered the limitations placed on me as a lesbian in a covenant relationship. My ministry became a difficult and painful cross. I loved the work I knew as a campus minister. I was in a graced place to help students struggling to find their places in the world as people of faith. I love my Church, and its social justice theology. However, the deep sadness of not being able to be fully myself, not being able to allow the people to know me, was degrading. To constantly have to play the pronoun game, to deny my relationship with the woman that I love, who has taught me what God’s love is, and what God’s Grace is, was too much. I have left the ministry that I love because I could no longer stand living in constant dichotomy. I remain active in ministry outside the bounds of denominational politics and control. I am Empowered by the Spirit. I have answered my call. It is my church’s choice not to value the gifts of LGBT community brings to ministry, but I will stay faithful to the Spirit who calls. Denomination Roman Catholic Church Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This stole was blessed and given to the Project at a special ecumenical worship service on November 4, 2007 in Toledo, OH. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1116 Title A name given to the resource Erin Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Toledo, Ohio (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Erin Catholic Ohio Ordination Roman Catholic Theology Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Marianne, Lynn, Kathleen, and Kirstie Stole Text In honor of MARIANNE, LYNN, KATHLEEN, AND KIRSTIE Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Church Eureka, California We present this stole in honor of the LGBT members of our church who were forced out of ministry when their orientation was known, and those unknown who left, feeling no longer at home there. They were loved and accepted only when closeted and silenced. They were active leaders in music, in liturgy, in education, and in Cursillo. They served as Eucharistic ministers, lectors, confirmation class leader, CCD director, study group and prayer group leaders and participants, music leaders, and choir members, and in almost every role in Cursillo teams. Marianne, Lynn, Kathleen, and Kirstie – We are sorry. We love you. Denomination Roman Catholic Church Contribution Date 2006 Contribution Story Dear “Stole People” (no longer Martha!) I saw the Shower of Stoles at the United Methodist General Conference in Pittsburgh 2004. Back home, some friends from church and I got together to make a stole for friends, church members, who had been fired and excluded. The items sewn onto the stole were chosen or contributed by the four lesbian women involved. They also gave an OK to use their names, and contributed photos. We, their friends, discussed naming our church clearly and decided we wanted to and needed to. The stole has been in each of our homes and displayed at a wedding for one of the couples. Now it’s time to send it on. May their story touch hearts as mine was touched when I read – a few at a time – others’ stories in Pittsburgh. Blessings on you and on GLBT work  Kathleen Tillinghost Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1076 Title A name given to the resource Marianne, Lynn, Kathleen, and Kirstie Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Eureka, California (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Kathleen Tillinghost California Catholic Cursillo Pennsylvania Roman Catholic Tillinghost, Kathleen Women and Religion https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/ca716be3d551e368d0a79e476739cc73.jpg 76b445d80bc86d8ec7ac116f24f1bc01 https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/33558c229f5b54c96c9fb47f6ed92a9b.jpg 61ea3e0dfe75be519f5ae8834aaf87bf https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/c7f594f5125781d98ecb4fc2759bca0d.jpg f1500ab021bac08a93c20f2f8ae39189 https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/7093b5f767eda73a6ba8db39cd905323.jpg 1ea9c502103360eeb737c4b13acd12c4 https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/306c74e4fe37935e193b2c35029dc881.jpg 131c01db0c531b74e6758e6d123b3ce4 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Hendersonville, NC (Solidarity Stole) Stole Text The Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Hendersonville, NC A Welcoming Congregation Denomination Unitarian Universalist Contribution Date 2006 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1077 Title A name given to the resource Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Hendersonville, NC (Solidarity Stole) Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Hendersonville, North Carolina (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Hendersonville, NC Ally North Carolina Unitarian Universalist Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rev. Barbara Pescan Rev. Ann Tyndall Stole Text REV. BARBARA PESCAN REV. ANN TYNDALL Unitarian Universalist Evanston, IL We have been extremely blessed in our ministries. From Starr King School for the Ministry in Berkeley, California, to serving as co-senior ministers at the Unitarian Church of Evanston, more often than not we have been in the company of people who saw us as persons first. Against that background, aspects of our being, such as being lesbians, were visible and received. Teachers, parishioners, colleagues and friends have encouraged us. Although our ministries were refused from time to time, even in the most glaring instance, homophobia was never the only factor in the decision. Other gay men and lesbian women pushed against institutional homophobia before us, so our way was smoothed considerably. Were they allowed, the women and men behind the stoles in this exhibit could give so much to the world so in need of healing! We are daily grateful to Unitarian Universalist Association, congregations and our seminary for giving us opportunity after opportunity to serve. Deepest gratitude to the Welcoming Congregation, Unitarian Church of Evanston for sending this beautiful stole to Shower of Stoles, and to Carol Nielsen who created it. Denomination Unitarian Universalist Contribution Date 2006 Contribution Story This stole was dedicated and given to the project during a large exhibit of stoles at the Unitarian Church of Evanston. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1078 Title A name given to the resource Rev. Barbara Pescan Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Evanston, Illinois (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Carol Nielsen Clergy Activist Illinois Nielsen, Carol Pescan, Barbara Tyndall, Ann Unitarian Universalist Women and Religion Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Reconciling in Christ ELCA Congregations (Solidarity Stole) Stole Text RECONCILING IN CHRIST ELCA CONGREGATIONS Portland, Oregon This signature stole is given in the spirit of justice and advocacy for the ELCA. Members and friends of four Reconciling in Christ ELCA congregations in Portland have signed as a commitment to the role our Lord has for all GLBT who answer God’s call to serve as a shepherd to his flock. Denomination Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Contribution Date 2006 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1079 Title A name given to the resource Reconciling in Christ ELCA Congregations (Solidarity Stole) Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Portland, Oregon (USA) Ally Evangelical Lutherans of America (ELCA) Lutheran Ordination Oregon https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/055d68e267eb27b5d00642f4991b6159.jpg 8e6947ae1ac8f3f5ef7b815e6a01789b https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/f90a109ec7f5e8fa327311706c4a965b.jpg 49e61c8d61d62c45ec1746ed1d5d67ca https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/aadf4b67190b1f1cd78f938af0c62df8.jpg 46e448cfef8eade69180120a5d229ded Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Anonymous Stole Text ANONYMOUS Roman Catholic Twin Cities, MN This stole was created in honor of a two-spirit person who served for over 30 years in Twin Cities area churches ministering in the areas of music, liturgy, and pastoral ministry. After s/he was inadvertently outed to his/her pastor, the pastor no longer trusted him/her and recently terminated his/her employment. While this two-spirit person does not know what the future holds, we who have created this stole for him/her know that the beautiful spirit of this person will find a way to use his/her gifts in music and ministry to connect spiritually with other people. Denomination Roman Catholic Church Contribution Date 2006 Contribution Story Given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1081 Title A name given to the resource Anonymous Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Twin Cities, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Anonymous American Indian Catholic Minneapolis Minnesota Native American spirituality Queer/non-conforming Roman Catholic St. Paul Transgender activism Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Irene Zvonik Stole Text In Honor Of<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> IRENE ZVONIK Presbyterian Church (<?xml:namespace prefix = ns0 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />USA) New York City, New York In honor of Irene Zvonik, March 17, 1924-August 19, 2003, New York City. Irene was a tireless leader and activist for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Presbyterians, working faithfully with Presbyterian Welcome to make change in the church she dearly loved. Irene dreamed that the doors of the Presbyterian Church (USA) would be opened before she passed from this earth and we work still on behalf of her dream. We miss her and know she is present with us still. This stole was dedicated in her memory at her memorial service held at West Park Presbyterian Church. Denomination Presbyterian Church (USA) Contribution Date 2006 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1085 Title A name given to the resource Irene Zvonik Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant New York, New York (USA) Clergy Activist New York New York City Presbyterian Presbyterian Church (USA) That All May Freely Serve (TAMFS) Zvonik, Irene Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Aspen Community United Methodist Church (Solidarity Stole) Stole Text Aspen, Colorado This stole is a gift from the Aspen Community United Methodist Church, Reverend Chuck Cram, Pastor. Several church members have signed in support of the project and in support of change. Denomination United Methodist Church Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This stole was donated to us after they hosted an exhibit during Aspen Gay Ski Week, 2007. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1086 Title A name given to the resource Aspen Community United Methodist Church (Solidarity Stole) Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Aspen, Colorado (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Rev. Chuck Cram Ally Colorado Cram, Chuck Methodist Ordination United Methodist Church https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/8e596a490636af1d1183848f5e48240e.jpg 7b310cfedebd9209b6455d446b136bac https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/e234dcae8d848e5285694d323f28072b.jpg 5bbc79938d148b2e777e23d23870df4f Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rabbi Jared H. Saks Stole Text RABBI JARED H. SAKS TempleIsrael Minneapolis, Minnesota I am blessed to have grown up in a family that taught me to accept “all kinds, all colors,” as my father says. I am blessed to have grown up at TempleShalom in Succasunna, New Jersey where my Confirmation program included a lesson on accepting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Jews. I am blessed to have grown up in the Reform movement of Judaism towards the end of the 20th century when gay, lesbian, bisexual Jews have been able to have attended Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion at a time when the ordination of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Jews is a reality. I am blessed to serve as the Assistant Rabbi at TempleIsrael in Minneapolis, Minnesota where my homosexuality does not define my rabbinate, but rather enhances it. I am blessed to be honored by this tallit (Jewish prayer shawl) and what it represents. I am truly blessed. Denomination Reform Judaism Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This tallit (prayer shawl) was given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1087 Title A name given to the resource Rabbi Jared H. Saks Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Minneapolis, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Rabbi Jared H. Saks Jewish Judaism - Reform Minneapolis Minnesota Ordination Saks, Jared H. Theology Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Jane Ramseyer-Miller Stole Text JANE RAMSEYER-MILLER Artistic Director, One Voice Mixed Chorus Twin Cities, Minnesota Mennonite culture is in the very marrow of my bones. I grew up steeped in four-part harmony and was mentored, encouraged and inspired as a musician in that rich, musical faith. I envisioned a future for myself that allowed me to integrate my faith with my gifts as a musician, organizer and activist. After my partner and I married in the early 90’s, the doors of the Mennonite church were abruptly closed to me. I was no longer invited to conduct, lead singing, write or compose within the denomination. I went from working in the Mennonite denomination to searching for a completely new vocation. I smile now at the irony of the Mennonite denomination’s exclusion of gay, lesbian and bisexual Christians. For the past decade I have made my living conducting an 80-voice GLBT community chorus. We work at social change through music in order to make our world a more welcoming place. This GLBT community has become the ultimate beneficiary of the gifts, lessons and skills afforded me by the Mennonite church as I plan concerts, conduct, compose, and collaborate with other denominations, communities and arts organizations. Denomination Mennonite Church Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story Given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1088 Title A name given to the resource Jane Ramseyer-Miller Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant St. Paul, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Jane Ramseyer-Miller Marriage Equality Mennonite Church USA Minnesota Ramseyer-Miller, Jane St. Paul Theology Women and Religion https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/b4d7bf706d7681d620ab91b58b0cf86a.jpg 145762799924a9a8b5c31febcc12d5a2 https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/759c97818dac2fd66d4806979d9e6d7e.jpg 2da5c8d4adca58f77c4c0b1aac384f79 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rabbi Amy Bernstein Stole Text RABBI AMY BERNSTEIN Temple Israel Minneapolis, Minnesota There are days I still can’t believe my good fortune. I wake every morning beside my partner to the sound of our three year old daughter attempting to climb into our bed and (on good days) after a prayer of thanksgiving for my life, prepare to begin my day as rabbi of Temple Israel. There was no way I could have imagined when I came out at the age of 16 that this life was possible. I was then attending Yeshiva High School (an Orthodox Jewish high school) and the message was clear that a gay or lesbian relationship was completely outside the realm of holiness. It was also clear that anyone living in a gay or lesbian relationship stood outside of the Tradition and any “family” created out of such a bond could only be a mockery of a Jewish family. As a result of the conflict between my core identities I left Yeshiva High School, Judaism and Jewish life behind me for the rest of high school and college. The void at my center was something I worked hard to ignore most of the time. The few times when I felt compelled to engage with Judaism like the High Holidays or Passover, I would touch such pain that I resolved to keep my distance from it for another year. It was in attending a Reconstructionist service at a gay and lesbian synagogue led by a lesbian rabbi that I began the long journey back to Jewish life and Jewish community and finally, to the rabbinate. The hole in my center has been filled to such an extent that it stretches me ever further open from the inside. I am so grateful for the generations of courageous leaders on whose shoulder I stand. The people of all faiths and persuasions who have been willing to take serious risks with their lives and who, in so doing changed people’s hearts and minds through their integrity, created the possibility of my life as a lesbian rabbi. Their courage and strength of character inspire and sustain me. The people of Duluth and Superior who were willing to hire an out lesbian rabbi for a very public role as the face and voice of non-Orthodox Judaism in the Arrowhead region displayed a depth of integrity and openness to change that continues to humble me. I am truly privileged to serve as their rabbi and teacher, honored to be asked to their hospital rooms and homes, and have been transformed by being entrusted with their stories and their struggles. It is all of those who have gone before me who have earned the honor of this tallit. It is the good people, Jewish and non-Jewish alike, of the Twin Ports who deserve to have it on display in honor of their leader. I am grateful beyond measure to all of them and to those of you living and celebrating the uniqueness of your own challenging and holy lives. Denomination Reform Judaism Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This tallit (prayer shawl) was given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. David Lohman IWR and Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1089 Title A name given to the resource Rabbi Amy Bernstein Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Minneapolis, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Rabbi Amy Bernstein Bernstein, Amy Jewish Judaism - Reform Minneapolis Minnesota Women and Religion https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/94ea65c14d16c8eda41e0492d82eda6b.jpg 12312473611d8ce926766ccaf83424ff https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/9b39bcfb8857f9d25872f6ea01b702e8.jpg edd0c534fc4b1a84012ba17836a55509 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rabbi Stacy Offner Stole Text RABBI STACY OFFNER Shir Tikvah Congregation Minneapolis, Minnesota This tallit honors Rabbi Stacy Offner. In 1984 Rabbi Offner became the first woman rabbi in the state of Minnesota. In 1987, she became the first out lesbian rabbi to serve in a “mainstream” congregation. Rabbi Offner is currently serving as the beloved rabbi of Shir Tikvah Congregation: A Reform Congregation Serving the Twin Cities. Shir Tikvah is a progressive, urban congregation committed to the building of a dynamic, caring, inclusive community in the spirit of Liberal Judaism. Denomination Reform Judaism Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This tallit (prayer shawl) was given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1090 Title A name given to the resource Rabbi Stacy Offner Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Minneapolis, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource One Voice Mixed Chorus Feminism Judaism - Reform Minneapolis Minnesota Offner, Stacy Women and Religion https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/56713d068699dacf1bb785ec4f88a2d1.jpg 84b42efa4f39d592028ea8d54039984d https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/c6a0199f37982f3933b1528f813ed141.jpg 372a505b0473f0fd10badc407872fc46 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Gay Straight Christian Alliance Stole Text Gay Straight Christian <?xml:namespace prefix = ns0 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />Alliance<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> Composed of Baptists, United Methodists, Presbyterians, Unitarian Universalists, & Episcopalians Delaware, OH This stole is from the Gay Straight Christian Alliance of Delaware, Ohio. We exist to provide spiritual sanctuary to all of God’s diverse creation. Yet at the same time we also bear witness to the churches in our surrounding community and larger world that God’s love is for all and that no church need ever be closed to those seeking to find communion with God there. We created this signature stole during an ecumenical worship service to honor our GLBT sisters and brothers who have been gravely wounded by the church in their striving to live out their call to ministry. Some of them are among us here in central Ohio. We pray for the day when our GLBT pastors will weep no more. Denomination Ecumenical Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story April 7, 2007<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> To the curator of the stoles: On behalf of the Delaware (OH) Gay Straight Christian Alliance and with great joy, I send you this signature stole which we crated during an ecumenical worship service. We hosted a portion of the SOS collection during the afternoon as an open, public showing and then followed with a worship service to honor all of our GLBT siblings who have been wounded in the course of living out their calls to ministry. At the conclusion of the service, all who wished to participate signed this stole, which was hand-made by a member of our group. Please know that there were many tears shed over this stole, both by those who signed and by those who could not yet, for their pain is still too fresh and intense. We are honored to be part of this tremendously powerful and important project. Thank you for keeping this witness alive as a reminder that our work is not yet done and as a sign of hope that God still moves among us. Sincerely The Rev. Heather Rittenhouse Ordained lesbian clergy – American Baptist Churches/USA Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1093 Title A name given to the resource Gay Straight Christian Alliance Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Delaware, Ohio (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Rev. Heather Rittenhouse Baptist Clergy Activist Episcopal Human Rights Ohio Presbyterian Church USA Rittenhouse, Heather Theology Unitarian-Universalist Association United Methodist Church https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/6767ee596a9c60b1a31dcf513d7f3477.jpg 2316b97c6e869b8fcbab1363573d5ae5 https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/be8f60b6620b1d42b81e7f9eed65897a.jpg d8073b0150918b808a22d49c8c2b475f Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Steve Greenberg Stole Text Steve Greenberg Congregation Shir Tikvah Union for Reform Judaism (in North America) Minneapolis, MN My grandfather gave me this tallis – my first tallis – for my bar mitzvah in November 1966. At the time, I already knew something seemed different about me, because I was definitely attracted to boys. I also figured at such a young age that I had a number of years to outgrow it or get over it. About nine years later, I talked to my rabbi about the same feelings, and he simply told me to ignore them. It is now almost exactly 40 years after my bar mitzvah. In the interim, I’ve led a synagogue contingent in song as we marched down Market Street in San Francisco in the GLBT Pride Parade, got the spectators to sing “Hava Nagilah” with us a few times, and have served as chazzan (cantor) for numerous prayer services in many settings around the country. Larry, my partner of nine years, accompanies me for most of the services that are out-of-state, and we find much support and warmth among the congregations that host us. My siblings and Mom love Larry, and I truly believe if my Dad were still alive, he would’ve adored him, too. There was a time early on when my Mom though it would be nice if Larry were to marry my sister – who is single. He seemed like a nice Jewish boy and that’s what she wanted for her daughter. But over the years, Mom has embraced reality, and at the end of our phone conversations, she tells me to kiss Larry goodnight. When I told Larry I was going to donate my bar mitzvah tallis to the Stoles Project, he wondered how I would feel to part with my first tallis. I brought up the scene from the movie Harold and Maude. There was a point where Harold gave Maude a ring, and she promptly tossed it into the lake. To Harold’s dismay, she responded, “Now I’ll always know where it is.” My tallis is safe with all the other stoles and tallitot (plural) here, and I’ll always know where to find it. - January 2007 PS: I’m pleased to write that my rabbi, who told me 30 years ago to “ignore those feelings,” has since sermonized about loving and embracing the GLBT people around us. Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This tallit (prayer shawl) was given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in January, 2007. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 You can read Steve Greenberg's biographic profile <a href="https://www.lgbtran.org/Profile.aspx?ID=4">here</a>, in the LGBTQ Religious Archives Network's Profile Gallery. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1080 Title A name given to the resource Steve Greenberg Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Minneapolis, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Steve Greenberg Clergy Activist Gay Liberation Movement Greenberg, Steve Jewish Judaism - Reform Minneapolis Minnesota https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/b307b77cf21952e48ca3549cb02815c8.jpg 2574c321512eaf862d80449659e5edcc https://exhibits.lgbtran.org/files/original/0b9d9fcedf22e8b70d95652d553bbf20.jpg 2106fbe4d08a16728a543a604cfba22b Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. One Voice Mixed Chorus (Solidarity Tallit, Hand Prints) Stole Text ONE VOICE MIXED CHORUS Twin Cities, MN This tallit represents all GLBT clergy and lay people serving in synagogues who are not recognized for their service and contribution to the Jewish faith. Originally used as a Bar Mitzvah Tallit in 1926, this tallit brings our history as Jewish People into the present and moves us into the future. The rainbow colored hands represent that we should hold out our hands in welcome to all people. Denomination Reform Judaism Contribution Date 2007 Contribution Story This tallit (prayer shawl) was given in conjunction with One Voice Mixed Chorus' "Reclaiming Faith" concerts in the Twin Cities in January, 2007. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1082 Title A name given to the resource One Voice Mixed Chorus (Solidarity Tallit, Hand Prints) Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Twin Cities, Minnesota (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource One Voice Mixed Chorus Jewish Judaism - Reform Minneapolis Minnesota St. Paul Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. WOW Interfaith Worship Celebration (Solidarity Stole) Stole Text WITNESS OUR WELCOME (WOW) INTERFAITH WORSHIP CELEBRATION June 10, 2006 Danville, CA This stole was signed by more than 80 worshippers at the 2006 WOW Interfaith Worship Celebration in Danville, CA in solidarity with and recognition of GLBT persons of faith who have faced painful choices between their faith calling and being true to their own sexual identity. This was the fifth annual WOW event where clergy and congregants from 20 communities of faith representing 11 denominations and faith traditions have gathered to celebrate our GLBT neighbors in the valleys surrounding Mt. Diablo, east of San Francisco. WOW is the result of the need for inclusive faith communities to “come out of the closet” and let the world know that, as children of God, we all are created in the image of the Divine. Having been surrounded by the Shower of Stoles for five years, we felt it was time to contribute a stole on behalf of our community. Denominations and faith traditions represented are: American Baptist, Catholic, Disciples of Christ, Episcopal, Jewish, Lutheran, United Methodist, Presbyterian, Unitarian Universalist, United Church of Christ, and Unity. We are also sponsored by five chapters of PFLAG, GLSEN, That All May Freely Serve, and the Pacific School of Religion’s Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry. Denomination Ecumenical Contribution Date 2006 Contribution Story This stole was signed during a worship service in conjunction with an exhibit of Stoles. David Lohman Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1074 Title A name given to the resource WOW Interfaith Worship Celebration (Solidarity Stole) Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Danville, California (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Barbara Reed Ally American Baptist/USA Baptist California Catholic Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) Episcopal Church Jewish Lutheran Ordination Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Presbyterian Reed, Barbara Roman Catholic That All May Freely Serve (TAMFS) Theology Unitarian Universalist United Church of Christ United Methodist Church Unity Fellowship Church Movement Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Anonymous Stole Text ANONYMOUS Denomination #NAME? Contribution Story This stole arrived in the mail with no name or story. David Lohman IWR and Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1091 Title A name given to the resource Anonymous Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Williamsburg, Virginia (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Anonymous Virginia Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Shower of Stoles Description An account of the resource Items (stoles) for the Shower of Stoles exhibit Stole A stole in the Shower of Stoles exhibit Honoree The person honored by the creation of thestole. Rev. Bonnie L. Lipton Stole Text Rev. Bonnie L. Lipton<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /> <?xml:namespace prefix = ns0 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />PilgrimChurch, United Church of Christ St. Augustine, FL God called me to the ordained ministry as a teenager. The church where I worshipped at that time did not permit women to be in any leadership roles, let alone answer the call to the ministry. I left that church, and all churches for a period of my life. But God never stopped calling me… As a middle-aged woman, I began the journey to ministry in my church of many adult years, only to be told that I was not called – due solely to my sexual orientation. Both God and I wept, but… Knowing who I was… Knowing whose I was… Knowing that my God does not make mistakes… I sought out a spiritual home, and was led to The United Church of Christ! I was loved, cared for, mentored, and ordained in this Christ-centered, unifying denomination. I continue to serve the UCC in parish ministry, reaching out in service and mission to our communities and our world. Happy 50th Anniversary, my beloved UnitedChurch of Christ! God IS Still Speaking AND Smiling! June 24, 2007 Denomination United Church of Christ Contribution Story This stole was given in celebration of the United Church of Christ's 50th Anniversary, and for the refuge that the UCC has offered for so many GLBT clergy. David Lohman IWR and Faith Work Coordinator National Gay & Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources Home of the Shower of Stoles Project 2007 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context 1092 Title A name given to the resource Rev. Bonnie L. Lipton Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant St. Augustine, Florida (USA) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Rev. Bonnie L. Lipton Florida Lipton, Bonnie L. Ordination United Church of Christ Women and Religion