Pam McAllister

Dublin Core

Title

Pam McAllister

Contributor

Park Slope United Methodist Church

Identifier

535

Coverage

Brooklyn, New York (USA)

Stole Item Type Metadata

Honoree

Pam McAllister

Stole Text

PAM MCALLISTER
Park Slope UMC
Brooklyn, NY

I have worshiped in a Methodist Church almost every Sunday since my childhood in the 1950's and have been an active and enthusiastic participant in almost every aspect of the church experience.  I was baptized in the church and later confirmed.  In my youth, I went to a Methodist church camp every summer and loved it, and I was a leader in the Methodist Youth Fellowship throughout my teens.

I grew up singing in the church choir.  Eventually, I attended and graduated from a Methodist college.  I planned to become a Methodist minister, but became a church organist and choir director instead.  For the past eleven years, I have been the Music Director of a reconciling congregation.  I have served the church well.

What a shame, then, that my denomination doesn't love me as fully as I love it.  The church will gladly use my gifts, but it will not bless my life as a woman-loving-woman.

No matter how fearful or small-minded or hateful some Methodists may be, this is the truth:  I am a child of the church AND I am a lesbian.  This church is my home.  I reject your message of exclusion.  I am here.

Contribution Date

2000

Contribution Story

This is one of thirty one stoles from Park Slope United Methodist Church included in a display of UM stoles at the 2000 General Conference of the UMC in Cleveland.  All are made from identically sized pieces in turquoise, lavender and purple cotton batik,  With only 200 members, Park Slope has donated the largest number of stoles to the collection from a single United Methodist congregation. 

A diverse community, Park Slope's creed is: Hand in hand, we the people of the Park Slope United Methodist Church -- black and white, straight and gay, old and young, rich and poor -- unite as a loving community, in covenant with God and the Creation. Summoned by our faith in Jesus Christ, we commit ourselves to the humanization of urban life and to physical and spiritual growth.  A scrappy congregation utterly committed to putting their faith into action, Park Slope has been unrelenting in its pursuit of justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in the UMC. 

Park Slope's LGBT know without a doubt that they are a welcome, vital part of the church.  Pam's defiant statement of assurance is common in a church that preaches a clear message of God's unconditional love for all people.

In 1999, the Reconciling Ministries Network (RMN) inquired about the possibility of having a display of the Shower of Stoles at the General Conference the following April.  At the time, there were only around twenty United Methodist stoles in the collection.  We decided to introduce the Shower of Stoles to the Reconciling community by bringing the twenty UM stoles and about a hundred others to RMN’s Convocation in Denton, TX over the Labor Day weekend.  Stoles started to trickle in during the fall, and by February they began coming in droves.  In all, we received 220 United Methodist stoles – the vast majority of them arriving within eight weeks of the Conference.  Thanks to a monumental effort by a number of volunteers who pitched in to help record, inventory, sew labels and make last-minute repairs, all of the new stoles were present in Cleveland.  Twenty more people brought stoles directly to Cleveland, bringing the total number on display to 240.

 Towards the end of the General Conference, twenty eight lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender United Methodists and allies stood on the Conference floor in silent protest over the Conference’s failure to overturn the ban on LGBT ordination – a profound witness and act of defiance for which they were later arrested.  As these twenty eight moved to the front of the room, another 200 supporters stood up around the balcony railing, each wearing one of the new United Methodist stoles.  Hundreds more stood in solidarity as well, in the balcony and on the plenary floor, wearing symbolic “stoles” made from colorful bands of cloth.  A group of young people from Minneapolis, members of a Communicant’s Class, had purchased bolts of cloth the preceding evening and stayed up all night cutting out close to a thousand of these “stoles”.  In less than eight months, a handful of stoles had grown to become a powerful, visible witness to the steadfast faith of LGBT United Methodists nationwide.

 

Martha Juillerat

Founder, Shower of Stoles Project

2006

Denomination

United Methodist Church