Anonymous ("This stole was given to me at my ordination into the Methodist Church... thirty-seven years ago...")

Anonymous ("This stole was given to me at my ordination into the Methodist Church... thirty-seven years ago...")

Anonymous

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Anonymous ("This stole was given to me at my ordination into the Methodist Church... thirty-seven years ago...")

ANONYMOUS

This stole was given to me at my ordination into the Methodist Church (now the United Methodist Church) thirty-seven years ago.  I have been an effective pastor and conference leader, respected and admired by most people in the churches that I have served and in the Annual Conference.  As a gay man, I have grown weary of having to live in fear that the wrong person may find out the real me that God created, and I am deeply hurt by having the Church to which I have given so much tell me that it does not want me because of who I am.

2000

This stole was given to us along with a second stole (#642) in advance of the 2000 General Conference of the United Methodist Church in Cleveland, OH.  In 1999, the Reconciling Ministries Network (RMN) inquired about the possibility of having a display of the Shower of Stoles at the General Conference the following April.  At the time, there were only around twenty United Methodist stoles in the collection.  We decided to introduce the Shower of Stoles to the Reconciling community by bringing the twenty UM stoles and about a hundred others to RMN’s Convocation in Denton, TX over the Labor Day weekend.  Stoles started to trickle in during the fall, and by February they began coming in droves.  In all, we received 220 United Methodist stoles – the vast majority of them arriving within eight weeks of the Conference.  Thanks to a monumental effort by a number of volunteers who pitched in to help record, inventory, sew labels and make last-minute repairs, all of the new stoles were present in Cleveland.  Twenty more people brought stoles directly to Cleveland, bringing the total number on display to 240.

Towards the end of the General Conference, twenty eight lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender United Methodists and allies stood on the Conference floor in silent protest over the Conference’s failure to overturn the ban on LGBT ordination – a profound witness and act of defiance for which they were later arrested.  As these twenty eight moved to the front of the room, another 200 supporters stood up around the balcony railing, each wearing one of the new United Methodist stoles.  Hundreds more stood in solidarity as well, in the balcony and on the plenary floor, wearing symbolic “stoles” made from colorful bands of cloth.  A group of young people from Minneapolis, members of a Communicant’s Class, had purchased bolts of cloth the preceding evening and stayed up all night cutting out close to a thousand of these “stoles.”  In less than eight months, a handful of stoles had grown to become a powerful, visible witness to the steadfast faith of LGBT United Methodists nationwide.

Martha Juillerat
Founder, Shower of Stoles Project
2006

United Methodist Church